Comments on: How To Cope When You Lose An ‘Anchor’ http://www.wethechange.com/how-to-cope-when-you-lose-an-anchor/ Exploring How Self-Improvement Plays a Role in Global Consciousness Tue, 07 Feb 2012 16:55:10 -0700 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: Ruth Ellen Brown http://www.wethechange.com/how-to-cope-when-you-lose-an-anchor/#comment-221712 Ruth Ellen Brown Fri, 02 Dec 2011 13:16:55 +0000 http://www.wethechange.com/how-to-cope-when-you-lose-an-anchor/#comment-221712 This is great. I've lost quite a number of people suddenly in my life over the past 2 years - it's really difficult losing someone who makes you feel secure, loved and real in the world. It's also hard losing relationships you have with the people who make you feel good. I felt very alone and dark at the time, but it's an important question to ask what 'was it that made you feel happy and secure' (and real) - most of it was missed assurance and support, which sometimes, you have to find in yourself. It's also nice that this idea of an anchor is such a broad concept that it can be applied too practically anything, too. :) This is great. I’ve lost quite a number of people suddenly in my life over the past 2 years – it’s really difficult losing someone who makes you feel secure, loved and real in the world. It’s also hard losing relationships you have with the people who make you feel good. I felt very alone and dark at the time, but it’s an important question to ask what ‘was it that made you feel happy and secure’ (and real) – most of it was missed assurance and support, which sometimes, you have to find in yourself. It’s also nice that this idea of an anchor is such a broad concept that it can be applied too practically anything, too. :)

]]> By: Ed Jor-El Elkin http://www.wethechange.com/how-to-cope-when-you-lose-an-anchor/#comment-196564 Ed Jor-El Elkin Thu, 27 Oct 2011 17:40:13 +0000 http://www.wethechange.com/how-to-cope-when-you-lose-an-anchor/#comment-196564 OVERWHELMED BY THE AMOUNT OF POSITIVE INFORMATION THAT CAN BE SHARED. AND YET.... AND YET. Found Tipping Point, the Shift, Barbara Marx Hubbard, Jean Houston, etc. LOVED the reminder that my strongest anchor is within me. Mahalo /Thanks from Maui , my anchor home for the last 22 years. Synchronicity Saves as we launch tomorrow into "Occupy Yourself" :) Love and blissings , kindred spirits. OVERWHELMED BY THE AMOUNT OF POSITIVE INFORMATION THAT CAN BE SHARED.

AND YET…. AND YET.

Found Tipping Point, the Shift, Barbara Marx Hubbard, Jean Houston, etc.

LOVED the reminder that my strongest anchor is within me.

Mahalo /Thanks from Maui , my anchor home for the last 22 years.

Synchronicity Saves as we launch tomorrow into “Occupy Yourself” :)

Love and blissings , kindred spirits.

]]> By: July 2008 Reflections http://www.wethechange.com/how-to-cope-when-you-lose-an-anchor/#comment-52507 July 2008 Reflections Sun, 14 Nov 2010 04:40:28 +0000 http://www.wethechange.com/how-to-cope-when-you-lose-an-anchor/#comment-52507 [...] How To Cope When You Lose An Anchor [...] [...] How To Cope When You Lose An Anchor [...]

]]> By: Fred Carter http://www.wethechange.com/how-to-cope-when-you-lose-an-anchor/#comment-29049 Fred Carter Mon, 15 Feb 2010 15:38:00 +0000 http://www.wethechange.com/how-to-cope-when-you-lose-an-anchor/#comment-29049 Todd. Enjoyed your article on anchors. I lerned from NLP how to create meaningful and constructive anchors for myself. That gave me a useful handle to work with. Todd. Enjoyed your article on anchors. I lerned from NLP how to create meaningful and constructive anchors for myself. That gave me a useful handle to work with.

]]> By: Cell Phone blogger http://www.wethechange.com/how-to-cope-when-you-lose-an-anchor/#comment-17304 Cell Phone blogger Wed, 08 Jul 2009 18:07:57 +0000 http://www.wethechange.com/how-to-cope-when-you-lose-an-anchor/#comment-17304 It can be really hard to loose those that matter most to us, especially when someone dies. I think a lot of times though, that we are more interested in what we have lost versus what happened to the other person. We all have emotions that can run a muck at these times. We just have to control these emotions so that they don't drag us down, don't you think? It can be really hard to loose those that matter most to us, especially when someone dies. I think a lot of times though, that we are more interested in what we have lost versus what happened to the other person. We all have emotions that can run a muck at these times. We just have to control these emotions so that they don’t drag us down, don’t you think?

]]> By: wincui http://www.wethechange.com/how-to-cope-when-you-lose-an-anchor/#comment-7387 wincui Sat, 10 Jan 2009 05:31:19 +0000 http://www.wethechange.com/how-to-cope-when-you-lose-an-anchor/#comment-7387 dear Todd, Thank you for the encouragement, maybe its truely time for me to be selfish for a moment & heal from all this one at a time. I hope in many more months to come, I can post to you the happier & better me. I will try my best & wil always try no matter how bad the storm is. Thank you for the wonderful site you've setup.It really helps to know there;s still caring people outside my own circle. dear Todd,

Thank you for the encouragement, maybe its truely time for me to be selfish for a moment & heal from all this one at a time. I hope in many more months to come, I can post to you the happier & better me. I will try my best & wil always try no matter how bad the storm is. Thank you for the wonderful site you’ve setup.It really helps to know there;s still caring people outside my own circle.

]]> By: Todd http://www.wethechange.com/how-to-cope-when-you-lose-an-anchor/#comment-7376 Todd Fri, 09 Jan 2009 16:22:50 +0000 http://www.wethechange.com/how-to-cope-when-you-lose-an-anchor/#comment-7376 Hi Wincui, and thank you for trusting your story on my blog. It really sucks what you are going through, and sounds like a 'perfect storm' of situations that can really bring you down. Your truest and most stable anchor is, and will always be, within you. Even though right now it is tough to feel this way, understand that time really does heal all. Well, maybe not 'heal' all but gives you perspective. Right now, give yourself time to heal. If you don't feel like doing a whole lot...don't. That is OK. Read, watch movies, paint...do whatever is enjoyable to you. Be selfish in a way. Let time work its magic. You will be OK, trust me, as long as you allow yourself to accept your life situation for what it is...and learn to smile at it! Much love to you, and know that there are so many who feel the same way you do right now :) Todd Hi Wincui, and thank you for trusting your story on my blog. It really sucks what you are going through, and sounds like a ‘perfect storm’ of situations that can really bring you down.
Your truest and most stable anchor is, and will always be, within you. Even though right now it is tough to feel this way, understand that time really does heal all. Well, maybe not ‘heal’ all but gives you perspective.
Right now, give yourself time to heal. If you don’t feel like doing a whole lot…don’t. That is OK. Read, watch movies, paint…do whatever is enjoyable to you. Be selfish in a way. Let time work its magic. You will be OK, trust me, as long as you allow yourself to accept your life situation for what it is…and learn to smile at it!
Much love to you, and know that there are so many who feel the same way you do right now :)
Todd

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